Life Coaching: Your Life’s Pathway

We must be willing to let go of the life we planned in order to have the life that is waiting for us.

Joseph Campbell

Foundation To Know About

I am here to help you dig deeper into meaning and understanding, opening up all your possibilities for discovery. Here are some questions to help you think about the start of a foundation that will help you think openly about your thoughts and needs:

  • What is the basic concept you start with?
  • If you want to find all the pain, peace, presence, passion, and purpose on your life’s pathway…do you have to be perfect to get that?
  • How can being imperfect be ok?
  • If you feel so vulnerable, and honestly hard to even accept yourself, how can you change?
  • Are you open to a deeper love to help you on your life’s pathway? And where can you find that love?

My View Point

I will use quotes from the Christian Bible because I believe in God, Jesus and the Holy Ghost. But I am a life coach for people of any faith, religion, or no spirituality at all.

  • I love all human beings on this earth. 
  • I am NOT here to control or force your life in any religion or certain faith. 
  • I respect and honor all spiritual traditions and beliefs.
  • I am only a vessel to help you find YOUR life’s pathway.

Important Words about Your Life’s Pathway

I have shared before pain, peace, presence, passion, and purpose that are all connected to your life’s pathway. Here is a deeper way to know more about it.  Life is like a problem to solve.

Purpose (Pain + Peace + Presence + Passion) = Your Life’s Pathway

First, everything in (parentheses) is adding up.  But when all is added up, it doesn’t have to be in that order.   And there could be an X symbol to indicate what is missing.

Now, the word purpose is placed at the beginning to multiply the meaning of each.

  • What is the purpose of pain?
  • What is the purpose of peace?
  • What is the purpose of your presence?
  • What is the purpose of your passion?
  • What is the purpose of your purpose?!

Each of these is equally important to your life’s pathway. And your life’s pathway is a journey.  There might always be something missing as an X, but the purpose is to search your soul to find it.  The purpose is to find, accept, and learn from a moment of life, to become more of who you are.

The purpose of life is a life of purpose.

Robert Bryne

So is this about being perfect with pain, peace, presence, passion, and purpose in your life’s pathway?

You don’t have to be perfect!

Because the word “perfect” is life’s paradox

In our world, being a good adult is defined as being excellent, foolproof, impeccable, superb, and determined.  The reason is to achieve a high expectation in life. Perfection is in the outside world, with the pressure to get it done in life as a reward, or feel shoved down because you didn’t meet it.   It follows both inhibitions in fear.

So I shouldn’t even try to be perfect? NO.  

You have to reach into the deeper historical meaning of the word “perfect”.

Be Perfectly Imperfect

The word “perfect” in the Bible is NOT the same as our current meaning.  

In Latin and Greek thousands of years ago, the word “perfect” meant “wholesome,” “fulfilled,” and “mature,” when the soul feels “complete within.”  Within you, it is not from cultural expectations.  It is to feel spiritually “perfect” that gives you amazing energy from your soul. We’ve been conditioned not to make mistakes.  But worldly expectations of perfection will make you imperfectWhich is normal to all!  We ALL make mistakes. 

But mistakes are the opening to learn more. The imperfection is how we learn the power of our choice.  

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

-Rita Mae Brown

Just following cultural expectations over and over is insanity when you keep wanting different results. It’s not helping you.  You may feel stuck.  It breaks you apart that you are not perfect. So from the world, we are all imperfect. 

Within your soul you’ll find yourself “perfect” just as you are. You can be both at the same time: There is imperfection in the world, yet perfection in your soul.  There are inhibitions in the world, yet intuitions in your soul are your pure energy. Thus, your soul is the one who guides you in the imperfect world!

Perfectly Imperfect.

The rocks are heavy, and it feels like you can’t move them at all.  Yet, from one seed, slowly grows through the rock to split it.  The rock represents the world, and your tree is the true power of your soul!

How can you figure out how to be perfectly imperfect?

Jesus explained in John 17: 14-16 that we are in the world but not of the world. 

It is hard to understand, so Jesus kept trying to share about it: 

How can you figure out how to be perfectly imperfect?

Jesus explained in John 17: 14-16 that we are in the world but not of the world. 

It is hard to understand, so Jesus kept trying to share about it: 

 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace.  In this world you will have trouble. But take heart!  I have overcome the world!”  John 16:33 (NIV)

You wake up in the world with your soul, but do not let the ego of the world take over your soul. Now, Paul in Romans 12:2 (NIV) explained it wonderfully:

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

Do you want to conform to the patterns of this world?  OR Be transformed by the renewing of your mind?

If you choose to be transformed by the renewing of your mind, your purpose is for the inside of who you are to be at peace and feel your own presence.

This is the core way to open to self-acceptance, then discover more…the power of love.

How can I even have my soul guide me in this imperfect world?

Brene Brown shared the best understanding:

“Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level of self-acceptance.” 

Self-acceptance is essential.  And yes, it can be hard.  Damn hard! Even when you feel so vulnerable to even think about it.   The word vulnerable has more power than you think!

Oprah Winfrey opens our perception of self-acceptance with vulnerability:  

Vulnerability is being willing to express the truth no matter what, the truth of who you are, the essence as your core of what you’re feeling at any given moment.  It’s being able to open up your soul so that others can see their souls in yours.

Oprah Winfrey opens our perception of self-acceptance with vulnerability:  

Do you feel self-accepted?  Are you too vulnerable to even want to talk about it?

That’s all ok, and why I am here!  I have felt that way too in life.   This can be the hardest part to talk about, but it is the first part to guide you through life coaching with me. It is very personal, one-by-one, to find your self-acceptance, which is the start to open your soul.

Love is the Core of Your Life’s Pathway

Jesus also clearly shared what life is about on earth in the most fundamental way for all. 

In Matthew 22:37-39 (NIV), Jesus replied to the Sadducees and the Pharisees as they tried to legally trip him up with the very specific 613 laws.  He shocked them with His clear purpose:  

This cuts to the core of the meaning of life:

  • Love God with your heart, soul, and mind. 
  • Love your neighbor.
  • Love yourself.  

When you find who you are and take steps to love yourself, that strengthens the connection with God, who loves you, and your love for Him. That makes for an amazing opening to discover more about your life’s pathway and your calling. 

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it:
Love your neighbor as yourself.”

Matthew 22:37-39 (NIV)

Calling is an Awakening of Your Soul

A calling arrives with light in your mind, body, and heart.  If you had covered your spirit, it is now fulfilled, and will never be hidden again.  It’s not just one feeling; it is all from your intuition, your gut, or meanings you received that will never be forgotten. 

There are so many ways a calling opens, or other words that are important to hear:

  • Deeply compelled to do something for a specific purpose
  • Your primary reason for your life 
  • Intrinsic feeling to serve
  • You discovered how to use the passions that you feel daily
  • Your life’s pain was healed, which turned into a gift you received to help others in pain
  • An energy arrived that gives you power you didn’t know you could have
  • A mission in your life to start and follow it step by step. 
  • True gratitude for who you are

Calling is an Awakening of Your Soul

A calling arrives with light in your mind, body, and heart.  If you had covered your spirit, it is now fulfilled, and will never be hidden again.  It’s not just one feeling; it is all from your intuition, your gut, or meanings you received that will never be forgotten. 

There are so many ways a calling opens, or other words that are important to hear:

  • Deeply compelled to do something for a specific purpose
  • Your primary reason for your life 
  • Intrinsic feeling to serve
  • You discovered how to use the passions that you feel daily
  • Your life’s pain was healed, which turned into a gift you received to help others in pain
  • An energy arrived that gives you power you didn’t know you could have
  • A mission in your life to start and follow it step by step. 
  • True gratitude for who you are

Yes, your imperfect world needs help!  Your perfect heart in your soul now sees and feels what needs to happen while still here on earth, through all the individual gifts you received.  Then you also see the purpose of pain: it opens you more than you ever expected, helps you learn to see its purpose, receive the peace you find in healing, and finally know the power of your presence.    

The most special part to know? The power of your presence is purely unique!  No one finds it with the same life pathway as you did.  You found the sparkle that will always glow.

"You will make known to me the path of life; your presence is fullness of joy, at your right hand are pleasures forever."

Psalm 16:11 (ESV)

Will you receive more gifts in a calling?

Now here is the most beautiful gift you will receive in your life’s pathway:

“You will make known to me the path of life; your presence is fullness of joy, at your right hand are pleasures forever.”

Psalm 16:11 (ESV)

It’s not about just being happy in a moment.  It’s a pure fullness of joy.  It takes your core to be in full light, with pleasure to be who you are.

After you feel fulfilled, will all problems in life go away?  

Not on earth. Pain will still come in many ways. But you will now be open to the purpose of pain and what to do.  

Yet the power of your soul will make the next purpose in your life stronger than you ever expected because you are at a level that you weren’t before, and your personal connection with God will be together in your life’s pathway.  You will still feel connected in your soul with people in need. 

And when you give, you shall receive.
It is also the most beautiful circle in the world!

My Calling for You

My true hope is that you stay open to the light within you, which will help guide your life’s pathway. 

I look forward to meeting you and understanding your needs.  Then we will discuss the steps to take together.

My calling in life is to be a life coach, speaker, author, and podcast host, helping to open your soul and guiding your choices toward becoming who you are.

Becoming who you are is a journey of awakening, transforming your pain into peace, discovering your presence, igniting your passion and purpose, and inspiring you to create your daily vision and follow your calling. 

Connect With Pierrette

I hope my life’s story could make you feel connected about Your Life’s Pathway.
Here are ways you can explore:

Podcast

Billy Graham shared with beautiful clarity: “God has given us two hands—one to receive with and the other to give with.”  I have received from God, now it is time to share as a gift to others on my podcast. It is always important to truly listen because words are just thoughts to consider, while the natural actions that arise from your thoughts are life’s spiritual teacher to learn from. 

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Speaking

Amazing philosopher Howard Thurman said, “Do not be silent; there is no limit to the power that may be released through you.”  My purpose is to speak, not be silent anymore. The power of grace has been released through my soul. I speak as a gift for you to receive.

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My Books

Books are a beautiful way to express deep experiences.  My books are from my soul to share, simple yet profound.  Helen Hayes says, “…when books are open you discover you have wings.

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